
 
An
 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 
years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window. 
The Father asked his Son, “What is this?” The Son replied “It is a 
crow”. After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, “What
 is this?” The Son said “Father, I have just now told you “It’s a crow”.
 
 After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, 
What is this?” At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in 
the Son’s tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. “It’s a crow, a
 crow”.A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, 
“What is this?”
 This time the Son shouted at his Father, “Why do you
 keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told 
you so many times ‘IT IS A CROW’. Are you not able to understand this?”
 A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained
 since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read 
that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the
 diary :-
 “Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the
 sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times 
what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I 
hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and 
again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt 
affection for my innocent child”.
 While the little child asked him 
23 times “What is this”, the Father had felt no irritation in replying 
to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his 
Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.
 So..
 If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a
 burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble 
and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.From today say this 
aloud, “I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me 
ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their 
selfless love on me.
 They crossed all mountains and valleys without 
seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society
 today”. Say a prayer to God, “I will serve my old parents in the BEST 
way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter 
how they behave."